728x90

Parentpedia

Teasing

Help

What Experts Say

All kids tease -- it's an inevitable part of childhood and becomes particularly common as kids enter the preadolescent years. Sometimes teasing can be harmless fun; other times, it can hurt. Knowing the difference can help your child cope better with it.

According to Judy Freedman, author of the book "Easing the Teasing: Helping Your Child Cope with Name-Calling, Ridicule, and Verbal Bullying," friendly teasing involves having fun with someone. It's not offensive, and it doesn't hurt a child's feelings. On the other hand, hurtful teasing involves making fun of someone. It degrades and belittles other people. When hurtful teasing goes too far, it's considered bullying....

Help Ask or Answer

What Do You Say?

Add a Question or Write an Answer

Most Recent Contributors:

Jun 27, 2007 at 1:27:28 PM

Teasing

 

As kids we learned that "sticks and stones break bones but names can never hurt us." As true as we want that statement to be, it just isn't. Words can be very hurtful and some kids really take unkind words others say to heart. Giving your child the tools to fight off a child who teases them will help them learn self-confidence and ways to cope in difficult situations. The best way to silence a teaser is to ignore them. This however, is a hard lesson. Work with your child to learn this lesson by role-playing. Teach them ways to walk away from the situation or use words that will keep them from coming back. Also, tell your children it is not ok for them to tease others or participate in teasing games. Let them know that teasing others is mean, hurtful and not acceptable behavior.

Help Add A Resource

Helpful Resources

Be the first to Add a Resource
Help Add Your Story

Tell Your Story

willwiess
willwiess
July 23, 2007

A Note on Sibling Rivalry

My 13-year old daughter and 8-year old son used to get along famously. These days, however, the age gap is much more prevalent and my wife and I are forced to endure more and more arguments between the two. They are usually limited to...  read more

Not Acceptable?

Bookmark and Share

ParentPedia contains the opinions and views of other users. Given the interactive nature of ParentPedia, we cannot endorse, guarantee, or be responsible for the accuracy, efficacy, or veracity of any content generated by our users.

The contents of ParentPedia are intended for educational purposes only. Such contents are not intended to, and do not, constitute medical or healthcare advice or diagnosis, and may not be used for such purposes. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Reliance on information presented on ParentPedia is at your own risk.

 

Flag as Not Acceptable?

We review flagged content and enforce our Terms of Use, in which content must never be:

  • Profane or sexually explicit
  • Disrespectful or abusive
  • Infringing of copyright
See full Terms of Use.

Thank You!

Thank you for helping us maintain a friendly, high quality community at Family.com. This comment will be reviewed by a community moderator.