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Talking to Boys About Sex
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Talking about sex with your son may make you feel uncomfortable, but it's a necessity. In fact, you'll want to start the conversation when he's as young as 8 or 9 years old (be sure to tailor your discussion to his maturity level.) Think of it as a way to inform him before he picks up incorrect information from his peers.
If you do feel uncomfortable, you can communicate that discomfort openly with your son, saying something like, "Talking about sex together might feel awkward, but it's important for us to find ways to talk about important topics like this."
Your conversation should address the physical and emotional dimensions of sex. The first concerns the practical aspects of sex, such as the...
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Just as you want to tell your son not to pressure someone into having sex when they don't want to, you should let your son know that he doesn't have to be pressured into doing something he doesn't want to do either. Peer pressure often demands more of boys than they might be ready for at certain points in their lives. And being an inexperienced boy can make some feel like they don't fit in. Letting them know that sex before they are ready can be tough emotionally and that the act should be done in a loving, committed relationship.
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Four might be too young
I told my son about sex when he was four, almost five, because he asked where babies came from. I think I need to wear a sign around my neck that says "Be careful what you ask me". Anyway, it was fine.... read more
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Always Honest
The most important thing to remember when talking to your son (or daughter for that matter)is to be honest and open with your child, and they will stay honest and open with you. If they are made to feel ashamed for having such feelings... read moreNot Acceptable?