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Dating is obviously one of the most important rites of passage for an adolescent. You probably recall your own first date, and all the excitement and anxiety that came with it. You might also remember wanting to date sooner than you were allowed, but it's important to remember that when it comes to your child, her interests and desires could be very different than they were for you at that age.

That said, it's helpful for parents to talk to their children about dating in the pre-teen years. If you have rules about when your child will be allowed to start dating, now is the time to share them. These early conversations could also focus on crushes and the basics of sex and attraction....

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Aug 31, 2007 at 5:19:00 PM

It's important to know the person your child is dating. Make sure that person has the interests and qualities you feel are right for your child. Often kids like to date "the bad" seed to help them see what life is like on the other side. While this may be ok for a while, make sure that whoever they are dating doesn't pressure your child into doing things they may not be ready for or are dangerous such as sex, drugs, or illegal activities. Also, if you see signs that your son or daughter is being abused by their boyfriend or girlfriend, it is time to step in and end the relationship. Get help of the school or local authorities to make sure that your child will be safe from the abuser.


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