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When your child was a baby, his "friends" were most likely the children of your friends or babies in his playgroup (a classic case of proximity yielding friendship). Children don't start choosing their friends until they are at least 2 1/2 years old -- prior to that, kids are probably having trouble understanding themselves, let alone figuring out another toddler.

Once your child starts making friendly overtures toward a boy in his daycare or the girl he sees most afternoons at the park, help him foster that burgeoning friendship, suggests Janis Keyser, co-author of "Becoming the Parent You Want to Be." Introduce yourself to the parent and set up a playdate. (Keep in mind, should your children hit it off, this parent is going to be a part of your life as well.)...

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Nov 8, 2007 at 6:07:28 PM

The American Academy of Pediatrics says that school-age children have about five close friends. Girls tend to have closer more intimate relationships while boys maintain a larger circle of friends. Kids like to choose friends that are similar to them in temperament. You might notice how your child's friend has so much in common with your son or daughter. As your kids grow their friendships will grow and evolve and they might have the same best friend forever or a new best friend every week. Either way, help your child foster their friendships by being supportive of them and getting to know their friends. Your interest in their friendships will give them the confidence to make more friends.

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itrebimbi
April 10, 2008

Friend of Foe

My son is in 3rd grade and seems to be having trouble making friends. He has been in this school since 1st grade. When he plays sports (soccer and baseball) he makes great friends, but they are not from his school. In his class this year...  read more

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heathermcduffie
September 10, 2007

My 11 year old son having a hard time making any friends.

My son is 11years old in the 6th grade. He is active in sports and seems to be liked in school, but when he is home all he wants to do is sit in his room and play video games. He would rather do something with his mom or dad than make...  read more

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IronJessica
July 11, 2007

Using his power for good, not evil

From the time my son, now seven, could talk, he has engaged with anyone who will listen, regardless of their age or attitude. Consequently, he's made friends easily with kids his own age on up....  read more

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