Having a boy opened my eyes.

latinalonestar's story

May 25, 2009

Until I became pregnant with my son, I never even thought twice about circumcision. Over 2 years later, I now spend most my time researching this issue and helping other parents get educated so they can understand the importance of genital integrity for BOTH boys and girls.

I find that most parents really don't understand the damage of circumcision, the ease of caring for an intact boy, and that the circumcision rates in the US are falling dramatically.

Damage of Circ: Circumcision has a profound impact on a boy. From the pain to the loss of specialized, mobilized tissue. Just as it does for girls, circumcision permanently alters the function of the male sex organ.

Caring for an Intact Boy: Only clean the exterior of an intact boy, a swish in the bath is sufficient. People are severely misinformed about the anatomy of foreskin. During the infant/childhood years the foreskin is fused to the head of the penis (glans) and the opening is only wide enough to allow for urine to pass through. This protects the developing penis from urine, feces, and other harmful pathogens. An intact boy should NEVER be retracted for cleaning or for any other reason. Premature retraction causes tearing, pain, and can result in many complications, including infection. The proper care for the intact penis is to LEAVE IT ALONE, only the exterior gets cleaned. Should poop get on the penis, all you do is wipe it like a finger. Throughout childhood the skin will slowly separate from the glans and the foreskin opening will widen. Self-cleaning excretions prevent the need for cleaning during that time. Through self-discovery a boy will learn to retract his own foreskin. After retraction is possible a boy can easily clean himself with a quick rinse in the same way that girl cleans her privates.

Rates are Falling: Circ rates are falling rapidly in the US. In some areas the rate is as low as 30%. Currently the national average is 56%. Intact boys are in good company.