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Bonding
Does every mom automatically bond with their child right when they are born?
If that magical moment doesn't happen in the first seconds after your infant passes through your womb, don't get worried. Although many moms' brag that they felt love the instant they saw their child, it is also very common -- although not discussed as often -- that a mother may not have any gushing feelings when they first hold their baby. Don't forget, you just pushed out an 8-pound human; pain, fear, and exhaustion are feelings more likely to be associated in those first few moments. This is not to make light of the importance of bonding, but as a new mom you should never feel guilty about your thoughts you have those first few moments after delivery. Besides, there is plenty of guilt you will feel about everything else later so pace yourself.
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