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The Best Ways to Raise a Reader

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Do label everyday items around the house with word cards. Type in big bold letters objects in your home and stick the label on the object. Label the door, television, window, microwave, clock, toaster, stairs, bookshelf, table, chair, etc. The word is now in context. You need not ever mention the label. Your child will say something to you and when he does you explain that the label is the written form of the word for that item. Your child will draw the connection later.

Do write down your children's words and read them back to them. Write down what your child tells you about an exciting part of her day or about a picture they drew or a bug they found. Don't edit their words. Write what they say exactly as they say it. Remember the process is more important than the product. Your child is learning about the process of reading and writing. It gives children a concept of how words are used and where stories come from.

Writing down your child's words also gives value to what she says. For children to see their words in print and hear their own words read aloud is empowering and it helps to give them a strong sense of what they can do with their words.

Don't encourage your child to sound out unknown words. The meaning of a word in the context in which it is being used is far more important to the reading process than the specific sounds. The English language is far too difficult to accurately understand a word by sounding it out. To insist on making sure your child has pronounced the word correctly can make reading a tiresome, boring process. Sounding out words takes the fun and joy out of reading. Your children will learn how to pronounce words through your use of a richer, fuller vocabulary.

Instead of sounding out words, encourage your child to guess at what the word might be. Teach your child how to recognize clues by looking at the pictures or thinking about the rest of the sentence or paragraph. Ask leading questions like, "What word might fit in that spot?" or "This word starts with a 'k,' what 'k' word could you use here?"

Do allow finger pointing when your child is reading. Finger pointing is a common practice when someone is unfamiliar with what they are reading. Following along with your finger enables you to have a sense of control over the material. This is true for adults and children alike. Let your children gain confidence in their reading and if the finger pointing does not distract from the enjoyment then let it be. Your children will give up following the words with their fingers when their confidence level rises.

Do let your children see you reading. Let your children catch you reading a novel, the newspaper, and a magazine. Read some of it to them so they get an idea of what interests you. Don't expect your children to be actively involved in reading if they never have an opportunity to see you reading. When your children see you reading they see that reading is meaningful and that it has a purpose for adults. It communicates that reading is not just about a grade at school. It says that reading has purpose in your life too.

Reading is so important to your child's educational development that March has been deemed National Reading Month. During the month of March take new or improved steps to raising a confident reader. Begin by letting your children see you reading this article. Then broaden your children's reading horizons the rest of the year by using the ideas presented here. The result will be children that love to read. family-ender.gif

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About the authors: Chick Moorman and Thomas Haller are the authors of The 10 Commitments: Parenting with Purpose. They also publish a FREE email newsletter for parents and another for educators. Subscribe to them when you visit, www.chickmoorman.com or www.thomashaller.com. Chick Moorman and Thomas Haller are two of the world’s foremost authorities on raising responsible, caring, confident children. For more information about how they can help you or your group meet your parenting needs, visit their websites today.



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The Best Ways to Raise a Reader

dlabrant
dlabrant says:
December 30, 2007

Kids will be kids regardless of best intentioned parents. I started reading to my first son from the moment we got home from the hospital. He loved books, so I thought. In Kindergarten my son realized he was being forced to learn to read himself. His comment to me was, "Why do I need to learn to read? You know how." I tried everything from bribery to comics to free choice of literature. He didn't want to learn. But something stranged happened in the 3rd Grade. His teacher loaned him a book he thought was funny. He then went to the school library and checked out every book in the series. He then read every one without me saying a thing. He is not the ferocious reader I would like him to be, but at least he is a confidant reader and enjoys it from time to time. Oh, I still read to him every night, but I have found that to be more about one-on-one time than the book time. I could read the label of a soup can as long as I was sitting with just him, reading and talking.

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Pequot143 says:
March 15, 2007

great

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SupaDG
SupaDG says:
March 15, 2007

I started young and have been an avid reader ever since. I'm convinced if I was plopped in front of the TV, I'd have lost out on a world of great books.

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