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College Bound! The First Year Experience

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From the Disney Family Editors: Homesickness is just one of the many challenges that first-year college students have to deal with.
In the unrelenting heat of an August afternoon, anxious college freshman lugged heavy footlockers and suitcases up crowded stairwells searching for their new "home." It was move-in day and residence halls across the country were overflowing with activity. Your normally confident and outgoing son was quiet and dazed. You were secretly having a panic attack.

Last year, approximately one and a half million first-time students began their degree-seeking journey within the walls of higher education. Regardless of their backgrounds and varying levels of academic preparedness, they all experienced the anxiety associated with the transition to college life.

And not all of them will make the adjustment - less than three-quarters (74.2 percent) of students at four-year institutions make it to their second year and only 54.6 percent of students at two-year colleges return for their second year.

The transition from high school to college is daunting for most 18-year olds, but parents, too, feel the stress associated with sending a child away to college for the first time. Understanding the concerns of college freshman and what you, as a parent, can do to make the transition easier will alleviate some of the anxiety - for you and your son or daughter.

What worries new freshmen during their transition to college
A national study entitled Your First College Year (YFCY) was developed by the Higher Education Research Institute at UCLA and the Policy Center on the First Year of College at Brevard College to track the experiences of first year students. Approximately 25,000 first-time students participate in the administration of the survey each year.

Findings from the annual YFCY studies identify a number of concerns shared by first year college students. Topping the list over the past few years were: paying for college, feeling overwhelmed, being lonely or homesick, meeting new people, adjusting to the social scene, and balancing social pressures with academic demands.

1. Paying for college
The majority of college students who responded to the YFCY survey reported that they had "some" or "major" stress regarding their ability to pay for their college expenses. Parents over the past decade are paying less of the increasing cost of their children's education. While the average price of attending a four-year institution has risen by an inflation-adjusted 38 percent in the past decade, parental support has declined by 8 percent.

2. Feeling overwhelmed
The YFCY reports that students "frequently" felt overwhelmed by all that they had to do and some felt "frequently" depressed. Keeping up with homework and assignments often weigh heavily on the minds of students.

William Fowkes, now a senior at Penn State University, was a little overwhelmed by his classes during his first semester. "I had a big load - a lot of credits - and that was my biggest concern. My biggest fear was not doing well academically," he remembers.

3. Being lonely or homesick
According to past YFCY studies, students felt "frequently" or "occasionally" lonely or homesick. Some even felt alone and isolated from campus life.

Caitlyn Allen, now a senior at Lycoming College in Williamsport, Pennsylvania, had a difficult time making the transition from high school to college. "I hated it, the first semester," she says. Allen wasn't homesick, per se, but she was so comfortable with the social environment in her hometown that she didn't want to start all over. "Everything was good in high school and I was kind of mad that I had to leave that comfortable nook," Allen recalls.

4. Meeting new people
The YFCY study reports that students are often worried about meeting new people. Steven N. Petkas, Associate Director of Student and Staff Development at University of Maryland, College Park, agrees that fitting in socially and developing friendships with other college students is one of the biggest concerns of college freshmen.

Fowkes initially didn't worry about meeting new people because a lot of his friends from high school were going to the same school. That, however, turned out to hinder his ability to form new friendships.

"I lived off campus with my friends from high school so I never really got to meet any new people," Fowkes says. "By the end of my freshman year, I didn't know anyone new. Everyone else who lived in the dorms had met new people and made new friends. I had no new friends."

5. Adjusting to the "Social Scene"
Exercising self-control in an environment of total freedom is a challenge most students experience. The YFCY survey confirms that "partying" is a common activity among new students. Possibly for the first time ever, college students are left to make decisions without the guidance or restrictions of their parents.



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College Bound! The First Year Experience

Cabots_mom
Cabots_mom says:
March 27, 2008

I couldn't agree with you more We went to 3 parent student days, 1 honors college day and it was MOST helpful. It actually helped my son decide that this was the place for him. The one college we went to where the President hit home was a college that was not for my son. She said if it feels like home, you are home and you will know this almost immediately. Believe it, after numerous visits, this is so true. Go. It is a MUST.

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WiseBozo says:
June 11, 2007

If the school has a Parent/Student orientation, be sure to go. When we went with our son, we got a lot of great information. And, they separated the student and parents, so we could all ask questions without embarrassing each other. ;-)

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SupaDG
SupaDG says:
June 07, 2007

I know I wish someone explained to me what to expect that first year away from home. I certainly didn't expect to get as homesick as I did.

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