In todays busy world, it is easy for parents to focus their time and energy on activities that directly benefit their own kids, and avoid getting involved with larger school activities and issues. Luckily you do not need to make a choice between helping the school and helping your child. Recent studies show that the children of parents who are involved in schools do better academically. This means the time you spend helping at school also boosts your childs chances for success.
Here are 10 ways you can be involved in your childs education. Some support your child directly and others benefit the whole school, including your child. Remember, you dont have to do everything! Choose the activities that fit your interests and schedule.
1. Make sure your children go to school
ready to learn.
In the
morning
scramble to get out the door on time, your children may skip
breakfast or leave homework behind. The day gets off to a much
better start if they pack their backpacks the night before, get
plenty of rest and have a good breakfast.
2. Make time for
homework.
Set up a study area with good lighting and a dictionary,
and limit television on weeknights to be certain homework gets
done. Make reading an everyday habit. Children who have "no
homework" can always review the day's lessons or read a book for
fun.
You may also need to curtail extracurricular activities and, as your children grow older, limit part-time jobs. Children who take part in other nonacademic activities for 20 or more hours per week usually don't have enough energy to perform optimally in school.
3. Monitor your children's academic
progress.
Don't wait until
report
cards come out to check up on how your children are doing.
Attend scheduled
parent-teacher
conferences to get acquainted with their teachers, and
dont hesitate to contact teachers at other times to find
out whether your children are keeping up with assignments.
4. When theres a problem, work with
the school on your childs behalf.
If your child starts to slip academically, make an
appointment with the teacher to put together a plan for
correcting the problem. Teachers appreciate parents who reinforce
the importance of schoolwork, and your child will have a better
chance of succeeding if you and the teacher agree on a
strategy.
If your child has difficulties with a teacher, try to keep an open mind and find out all the facts before jumping to conclusions. It's always best to try to work out differences with teachers before going over their heads and complaining to the principal.
5. Attend school functions.
Going to back-to-school night, the spring concert, school
plays, talent shows and other school events shows your children
that you value their schools. In a 10-year study of 20,000
teenagers, Laurence Steinberg found that only one-fifth of
parents regularly attended school functions, and that those who
did were much more likely to have high-achieving students.
In addition to communicating to children that school is important, Steinberg writes in Beyond the Classroom, Attending school functions may be even more important for the message it communicates to teachers and other school personnel. Teachers cannot help but pay closer attention to students whose parents they encounter at school programs, for both positive and negative reasons. On the positive side, the added attention stems from a sort of halo effectSusies parents are interested in her education, so Susie must be, too. But the attention also stems from the teachers knowledge that Susies parents are the sort of parents who are more likely to take action if something in Susies education is not going right.
6. Volunteer at the school.
In the early grades, some parents like to
volunteer
at school so they can observe how their children interact
with other kids. As your children grow older, they may tell you
they don't want to be seen in public with you, but they
definitely get the message that school is important when they see
you helping on school projects.
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