Regarding toys and games, you can make it so that your children ONLY get "free" toys on Christmas and their birthdays. If they want something additional, they must purchase the item with their own money.
Taking these ideas one step further
Once you have inspired your children to participate in this
money saving, "brand free" lifestyle, it's time to MOTIVATE
them to help increase their success. As with everything in
life, having a goal to strive for greatly increases the
probability of success.
Goals help us stay focused on the task at hand. Goals help the individual strive for something tangible that's meaningful or important to them. A runner's goal may be to shave 10 seconds off their lap time. This runner will then practice, workout, and time themselves, striving to run a lap 10 seconds faster than before.
In our "brand free" exercise, you may want to come up with a goal that you and your children can strive towards. For example, you could establish a short term goal that states, if your children can eat healthy and not ask for any "brand name stuff" for two months, you will take them to any movie they want to see.
Here are some more ideas for the various goal ranges:
Short term: One to three months
Picnic, trip to beach, movie of their choice
Medium range: Three to eight months
New game, doll house, Chuck-E-Cheese trip
Long term: Eight to 12 months
Disneyland trip, water theme park, day at the carnival
Sticking to your plan
Regardless what your decide to implement, remember that this
is your plan. You are the parent, so you decide what's best for
your children. Don't take any negative remarks or any bad
mouthing from your kids in regards to this new lifestyle. Stick
with it!
Just keep in mind that these exercises and lessons will benefit your children in the long run regardless of what they may think of it at the moment.
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