I would have never agreed with this before I experienced this myself in my own family. Looking back , I remember I listened to way too many 'experts' while staying married for the sake of our child. And , granted , every situation is different. But , while I respect the advice of most relationship 'experts' , I am finding more 'solid' advice simply from those that have actually lived through these situations. I have also lived through this ... and I agree completely with this modern mom. Good advice - thanks for taking the time to share.