I am a person who had a problem with drugs and has been clean for about 4 years. the way most family's talk is very moderate and so is the way the schools do their program. My oldest knows how bad people can be and I tried to keep them away as much as possible. I feel the best way to get through is knowing the worst that could happen, don't sugar coat it that doesn't help anything. Also a cop that only knows his side of the fence can't always get across. Statistics only show what ifs not reality. Reality is the death and pain that follows an addiction, so lets get real home testing won't help the kids don't care cause their not scared of punishment.