Saying No
The less said the better. Keep it simple. Giving lots of
excuses can result in people offering solutions.
Say no in the beginning. Once a schedule has been established, firmly state what dates and times are good for you. If someone asks you for a favor, it is okay to say no. The quicker you say no, the quicker they can find someone else to assist them. You can also politely say, I'd love to help, but I am not the one for the job. Be careful not to volunteer to help others out of habit. Are they asking because you offered?
Be definite in your own mind when you say no. By being firm, you don't freeze and sound nervous when telling someone that it just doesn't work for you.
Breastfeeding in Public
Some may argue that breastfeeding in public is a breach of
etiquette. I beg to differ. As a nursing mother, there will be
times that your baby will need to eat and you may not have the
time or means to get back home. There is absolutely nothing
wrong with breastfeeding your infant outside of the home, as
long as it is done discreetly.
There are many products on the market that allow you to feed your infant without prying eyes seeing your bra or breast. Be prepared with one of these handy garments or bring a blanket in your diaper bag. Choose a place that is appropriate. A crowded restaurant or Starbucks would not be ideal, as it is important to think of others. If you have no other options, ask management if there is somewhere private you can go to feed your infant. They should be more than happy to accommodate your needs.
Dos & Don'ts
Don't get offended or start a fight if others give you
stares. Some people, especially those who have never been
mothers, may feel that breastfeeding anywhere besides the home
is inappropriate and unnecessary. It is helpful to keep in mind
that everyone has an opinion. Do research breastfeeding products that make the task
more discreet. Do use your judgment as to where you feed, especially
when young boys or men are present.
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