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March 10, 2008

Picture-Perfect Thank-You Notes

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Natalie and I had just completed a stack of thank-you notes for her fifth birthday. Our system of sharing the writing kept her humming along cheerfully. I drew lines on each note for her to fill in the friend's name, the gift, and her signature, and wrote the rest of the copy for her. We also spread the work over three days to avoid burnout. She completed each one carefully, leaving me hopeful that the importance of showing appreciation -- and taking an active role in it -- had sunk in.

Not a day after we'd mailed our notes with a great feeling of accomplishment, Natalie received some stellar thank-yous from other friends whose birthdays happened to fall near hers. After I practically slapped my forehead in classic "Why didn't I think of that?" manner, I tucked these ideas away for next year.

  • Commemorative photo card
    One savvy mom snapped a few shots of all the children at the party together. Since everyone had come dressed up as fairies or princesses, the effect was especially adorable. Using the online photo service Shutterfly (www.shutterfly.com), she uploaded the winning shot, and made it into cards (about $10 for a set of 12). When your child is on the card, perhaps she'll be more tempted to leave her signature on the inside as well. At the very least, the thank you doubles as a sweet memento of the event. Natalie's had hers on her dresser for ages.

  • Illustrated thank you
    Clever mom #2 had her daughter draw a picture depicting the party on the lower half of a 9 x 11 sheet of paper (long side down). When she finished her fabulous scene of girls decorating clay creations and playing pin-the-tail-on-the-cat, her mom flipped the paper up, and wrote a blanket thank you inside. Then she color-copied it, and had her daughter add the friend's names and sign her own to each folded card. Voilà. Original and heart-felt.

    And now I'm off to write thank-you notes myself -- to send to these two moms for their bright ideas.

    What kinds of clever thank-you cards have you seen, or made? Click the comments link below to find and share ideas.

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