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July 7, 2008

Beating the Mid-Summer Blues

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Somewhere around mid-July, summer suddenly falls into the "too much of a good thing" category and skids to an abrupt "I'm-sooo-bored" halt. The signs that you've arrived at the summer-doldrum zone are as blazing as the heat itself -- children troll about sullenly and aimlessly, bickering replaces giggling, and little fingers (accompanied by endless demands) tug constantly at your shirt.

In the past, our family has experienced a frightful bout of these mid-summer blahs. So, several hot and bothered summers later, I've adopted techniques to avoid this seasonal meltdown.

Since we don't typically have much of a summer camp budget, and we have three kids of such varied ages (10, 8, and 1), we've scoured every resource we could find for free or inexpensive summer activities that help make a fun, relaxing and memorable summer for our family.

  • The Summer Calendar System: Nothing is better at backing you up, and keeping energy high, than a simple, wipeable calendar. Posted in a highly visible spot in our house, I take time every week to fill it out as thoroughly as possible. The kids get a lot of reassurance from seeing what lies ahead during the summer, and they all accept plans more readily and eagerly when they're placed on the calendar. For kids who can't read yet, simple pictures work just as well as words.

  • Find a Base Camp: We put some of the money we saved from not doing camp toward a family membership at a local lake or pool that provides a cool getaway on hot and sunny days and offers some free activities. This gives our weekdays a foundation and we usually spend time at our "base camp" two or three days a week.

  • Keeping Up Summer Playdates & Sleepovers: Throughout the summer, I regularly touch base with the parents of my kids' close friends so that we can schedule playdates and sleepovers in advance. I find that if we leave playdates to the last minute, it's harder to make them happen. We like to invite friends who are attending daycamp over for special early evening cook-outs so that we still get to see them, too.

  • Day-Tripping: On most Fridays throughout the summer, we plan special day-trips to some of our favorite spots -- the beach, a local farm with a corn-husk maze, a minor league baseball game, or a water park. Sometimes I announce the trip beforehand, but the kids also like it when I write "Mystery Trip" on the calendar and surprise them. It gives everyone something to look forward to all week long.

  • Resource/Activity Lists: In order to keep our summer plans full and interesting, I regularly check out area websites, local newspapers, and parenting papers. Some of our best resources are town festivals and fairs, museums, bookstores, local farms, the zoo, libraries, theatre companies, circuses, outdoor recreation, and concert areas.

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