What Parents Should Know
Parents need to know that this movie has some strong
language and that Novalee and Lexie have children without being
married. Sister Husband prays for forgiveness for
"fornication." Women have sex with men who abandon them. One
character has sex with someone who has suffered a loss, and the
implication is that this is a form of comfort. A character
abuses drugs and alcohol, and three others are alcoholics (two
recovering). One character is killed, and two others are badly
injured. A man attempts to molest two children (off-screen).
Families can talk about one character's view that people lie
because they are "scared or crazy or just mean," about another
character's statement that "home is where they catch you when
you fall" and about what makes it possible for some people to
survive deprivation and tragedy. They should also talk about
what made it difficult for Lexie and Novalee to accept love
from good men. And they should talk about the extraordinary
kindness the characters show each other, particularly the
thoughtful way that Sister Husband invites Novalee and her baby
to live with her, making it sound as though Novalee is doing
her the favor.
WHERE THE HEART IS stars Natalie Portman as Novalee Nation, a pregnant 17-year-old abandoned at a Wal-Mart by her boyfriend. She moves into the Wal-Mart, keeping careful track of everything she takes, and becomes something of a sensation when she ends up having the baby in the Wal-Mart. Sister Husband (Stockard Channing), a dotty but affectionate recovering alcoholic, takes her in. Novalee makes two other friends -- Lexie (Ashley Judd), a kind-hearted nurse who is always looking for Mr. Right but finding herself pregnant instead, and Forney (James Frain) a brilliant librarian with a sad secret. Novalee and her friends cope with tragedy and learn to "let go of what's gone and hold on like hell to what they've got." They acknowledge the sadness and unfairness and meanness in life, but they "hold on to the goodness and pass it on." Novalee and Lexie must also learn that they deserve to be loved and cared for.
You don't have to ask where the heart is in this movie it's all heart. All of the elements are there -- a plucky heroine with adversity to overcome; a love interest who is cute, patient, and endlessly devoted, and who completely adores the heroine's daughter; an abashed ex-love interest to realize the error of his ways; and an assortment of women friends, also endlessly devoted, to support and be supported, and everyone just as colorful and quirky as can be.
This movie is worth seeing just to watch five of the finest actresses in movies. Natalie Portman is radiant as Novalee, and it is a pleasure to see her bloom before our eyes. Ashley Judd is delicious as Lexie, explaining that she named her children after snack foods and getting excited about each new husband prospect. And then she is heart-wrenching when she must deal with the unthinkable. Joan Cusack is sensational as a music promoter who has seen it all and has no illusions. Sally Fields contributes a magnificent cameo as Novalee's wayward mother. Just the way she smokes a cigarette tells us everything about her life since she left home. And Stockard Channing makes us see how Sister Husband's life may have left her a little addled on minor details, but utterly clear about the important things.
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