There are definitely some mixed messages here. Songs such as "Beautiful" and "Keep on Singin' My Song" are about loving and believing in yourself, and "Can't Hold Us Down" discusses the unfairness of double standards ("The guy gets all the glory the more he can score/while the girl can do the same and yet you call her a whore") but other tracks such as "Get Mine Get Yours" ("We make love but don't fall in love/We spend time, just enough, so you get yours and I get mine") and "Dirrty" ("Let's get dirrty, that's my jam/I need that, uh, to get me off, sweatin' till my clothes come off") suggest that commitment-free sex and sexy posturing are the ways to act. You might want to talk to your kids about these messages: Do they think it's confusing that Aguilera sings about self-acceptance and self-love when she's wearing little more than underwear? Does the sexy image that she has carefully cultivated take away from the positive messages of many of her songs? Why do they think she is trying so hard to shock her audience? What do they think about the double standard she sings about?
What Parents Should Know
There are definitely some mixed messages here. Songs such as
"Beautiful" and "Keep on Singin' My Song" are about loving and
believing in yourself, and "Can't Hold Us Down" discusses the
unfairness of double standards ("The guy gets all the glory the
more he can score/while the girl can do the same and yet you
call her a whore") but other tracks such as "Get Mine Get
Yours" ("We make love but don't fall in love/We spend time,
just enough, so you get yours and I get mine") and "Dirrty"
("Let's get dirrty, that's my jam/I need that, uh, to get me
off, sweatin' till my clothes come off") suggest that
commitment-free sex and sexy posturing are the ways to act. You
might want to talk to your kids about these messages: Do they
think it's confusing that Aguilera sings about self-acceptance
and self-love when she's wearing little more than underwear?
Does the sexy image that she has carefully cultivated take away
from the positive messages of many of her songs? Why do they
think she is trying so hard to shock her audience? What do they
think about the double standard she sings about?
Common Sense Media Review
Christina Aguilera wants to prove to us all that she has
grown up--in the provocatively titled STRIPPED, she moves away
from her bubblegum pop princess image and attempts to capture a
more mature audience. She is sometimes successful--in songs
such as the haunting and deeply personal "I'm Okay", she shares
what it was like to grow up in fear of her abusive father. This
song, which she wrote and composed, suggests a depth that many
probably never suspected she had. And the message of self-love
in the heartfelt "Beautiful" is something that fans of all ages
can appreciate--it's reassuring to know that even a superstar
can feel insecure at times, too.
Unfortunately, Aguilera feels that she needs to do more than sing about her painful past or hidden fears to attract an older crowd--she seems to think she has to shock them into listening. "Dirrty", which is the ultra-sexual first single that she released, is the worst song on the CD. Its in-your-face sexuality is just desperate, not erotic. "Get Mine Get Yours" is equally raunchy and uninspired--plus its glorification of sex without love is at odds with her previous messages of self-worth. You might want to point out to your kids that people who truly feel good about and respect themselves don't feel the need to engage in no-strings sex.
Bottom line: Most of the music here is excellent, but you may want to talk with your teens about some of the conflicting messages.
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