What Parents Should Know
Parents need to know that this isn't your typical romantic
comedy. After the main character's fiancé dies on the eve
of her wedding day, she discovers that her husband-to-be hid
the facts that he was a millionaire and had fathered a child
with another woman. Out of grief, the characters act recklessly
and have casual sex, overeat to the point of gluttony, and
frequently get drunk. Tweens might initially want to see this
because of Jennifer Garner's popular comedy
13 Going on 30, but this "chick flick" features very
mature themes like death, infidelity, and deceit.
Families can discuss the many ways that people keep secrets. What would have happened if Grady hadn't died? In what ways are all the characters different than they first seem? After the funeral, how do Grady's best friends help support Gray? What are some examples of the characters acting selflessly? How is this movie similar to and different from other romantic comedies? What elements do most romantic comedies have in common?
Common Sense Media Review
Even
Alias
devotees who adore
Jennifer
Garner will be disappointed by this unimpressive
dramedy.
Garner stars as Gray, a woman whose fiancé, Grady (yes, those are really their cutesy names), dies on his bachelor-party fishing trip, so she spends what would've been her wedding day attending his funeral. After the funeral, Gray and her unopened wedding presents move in with her beloved's odd-couple roommates -- responsible business partner Dennis (Sam Jaeger) and slacker Celestial Seasonings employee Sam ( Kevin Smith). Complicating the new "three's company" balance is Fritz ( Timothy Olyphant), Grady's womanizing high-school friend who's so uncomfortable at the funeral that he has to get it on with the caterer in a bathroom.
Gray can't figure out why Fritz, a Hollywood director, is still hanging around their Boulder, Colo., bungalow until she finds out that Grady had never revealed a couple of important details about his life: He was a millionaire, and he was sending monthly payments to a woman and her son -- his son. Fritz knew all about the infidelity, but Gray quickly forgives him and even crawls into the living room's sofa bed with him, literally in plain sight of her new roomies.
When Grady's New-Agey baby mama ( Juliette Lewis) and son show up wondering where their check is, the story comes even further apart, but writer-director Susannah Grant -- an Oscar nominee for writing Erin Brockovich -- ties up all the loose ends with clichéd outcomes that even a seventh grader could predict.
At least Lewis and Smith are amusing as, respectively, an airheadish massage therapist who studies Chinese medicine and a robe-wearing, fast-talking layabout who likes to quote sayings printed on herbal-tea boxes. But a few funny lines can't save this romantic comedy from being utterly forgettable.
Garner fans might prefer 13 Going on 30; other options include the Grant-penned In Her Shoes , and Smith's Jersey Girl .
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