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What's in a name?
pej1299 - October 27, 2009
Do you feel parents should carefully consider the name of their child before naming that child? For example, in certain ethenic background the name of a child can pretty identify what race that child is and because of racism and discrimination, a child suffers because of their name. What is your feedback on this topic?
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Shelstory - October 28, 2009

Hi! I was lurking and thought this was a very interesting questions. Here are my thoughts:

We carefully consider names, because we enjoy that part of having a baby, and we want names that will identify our cultural heritage. As Italian-Americans, there is less and less of our ancestory reflected in society. To most people, it's a cliche of pizza, pasta and Tony Soprano. The one way we thought we could instill some pride for our heritage in our kids was to give them more traditional Italian names. Even so, when my oldest was born and dubbed Angelo, an older relative chuckled and said, "Well we know this is one baby who will never be president with vowels on the end of his names." I thought that was sort of sad, but that's how the older generations see things. All in all, we love their names and have no regrets.


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1hotmama7 - November 08, 2009
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  Hi! I was lurking and thought this was a very interesting questions. Here are my thoughts: We carefully consider names, because we enjoy that part of having a baby, and we want names that will identify our cultural heritage. As Italian-Americans, there is less and less of our ancestory reflected in society. To most people, it's a cliche of pizza, pasta and Tony Soprano. The one way we thought we could instill some pride for our heritage in our kids was to give them more traditional Italian names. Even so, when my oldest was born and dubbed Angelo, an older relative chuckled and said, "Well we know this is one baby who will never be president with vowels on the end of his names." I thought that was sort of sad, but that's how the older generations see things. All in all, we love their names and have no regrets.  
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I agree, this is an interesting question. I don't know how much research people do on baby names, maybe some more than others, but I chose family names. That was enough meaning for me that I knew I wanted to use them.
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Helen-NotofTroy - 3 weeks ago
I think parents should definitely consider their children's names. As a preschool teacher I run across my fair-share of interesting choices. Sometimes I wonder if parents are thinking about their child when they choose a name, or its just something they think sounds cool or trendy.
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