I am a mother of 7 and have had 3 preemies. One was 3 months early, one was 2 1/2 months early and the last was 2 months early. This was a while ago as the last one is 21 but if you need to talk have a question I might be able to help. It can be difficult haveing a preemie and just talking to someone who knows what you are going through helps. Not acceptable?