Many times, I've picked up my children from play dates, or school events, and have parents surprised at their good manners and some have even accused my kids of being  "simply too polite," or "awfully well behaved."

I brush off their compliments (I think) with an awkward giggle.

"They are just accustomed to practicing their good manners, at other people's houses."

Am I being weird?

"He didn't even knock - what's wrong with young people today - didn't his mother teach him respect?"

My neighbor's boy let himself in one day, raced up to my 8-year-old son's bedroom and my father was stunned.

"You shouldn't have let him come in the house, until he did it properly."

He had a point, I know, but I tried to explain to my father that I've known the boy ever since, well, forever and I was very content with knowing that the child was comfortable in my home.

My father just shook his head and said that it wasn't like that when I was growing up, in his house.

"No, it wasn't and it's not like that in my house, either.  But, I don't necessarily agree with attempting to conform someone else's child, any further than respecting our house rules."

Quite frankly, I believe that there are plenty of adults who seem to have common courtesy issues, as well - making an obvious effort not to see me, coming.

Recognize any?

I do, especially walking onto a soccer field full of parents, who continue their conversation without so much as a "How's it going?" or "Oh, it's you, again!"

Some people just have trouble with being the first to, well, say anything - being just as shy or unaware, as their children - so, I'll say it first.

"I just wanted to come over and make sure to say a quick, HELLO!"

What?

Reminding my children, along with those around us - and especially if you've been invited into our home - although, dirty shoes may not always be welcome and it can get a little messy, around here, kindness and courtesy will most certainly be appreciated.

That's the best I can do.

And whenever someone turns to me first with a greeting and asks me about my day, I'll probably throw myself at their feet and cry.

"Stop!  Just stop!  You had me at hello!"

Perhaps only then will parents understand that I'm just being weird, or anything.