Dalai Mama Dishes
Catherine Newman cooks for the family
8 |
This is as simple and satisfying a meal as I can imagine.
Humble ingredients.
Which get prepped simply.
And then cooked together in a pot. Which I forgot to take a picture of, which is why I'm mentioning it here.
Garnish.
Dinner.
That crazy Ben!
Before. . .
. . . and after.
I think that it's important, when you're expecting a baby, to think in terms of the stories you will tell your kids about their birth. Not, "I bent over so Daddy could look at my hemorrhoids and then, whoosh, my water broke!" or "I was watching a youtube video of a cat bumping into walls with a tissue box stuck on his head. . ." But, "We were picking flowers in a meadow and humming Vivaldi's Four Seasons when I felt the first contraction." I like to tell Ben about how Michael and I walked the beach in Santa Cruz, watching the waves gather and crash in the moonlight, a million stars winking overhead like a million knowing eyes. "One hour before they were going to induce me," I always tell him, "I went into labor. You said, 'Okay, okay, I'm coming on my own, don't rush me.'" It is so like the way Ben is now that it makes me laugh, and then cry a little, to think of him wedged in there all cozy and stubborn and then finally mustering the energy to do something before somebody made him.
My own mom has always told the story about how she ate a bowl of cream of cauliflower soup the night I was born, and I have always loved it. And so, this past week of Anni's due date, I have thought a great deal about what I was feeding her every night. (If you missed part of the summer: we have a friend living with us now who is--er, was--pregnant.) The truth is that I did not make her the last meal she ate before she went into labor, and given the fact that she projectile vomited it out her nose during an especially strong contraction, I am not sorry about this fact. The last meal I made her was actually saag paneer--that insanely delicious creamy-spiced Indian dish of spinach and fresh cheese (though I used tofu instead, a la the recipe in this book). But the night before that, I made Potato Leek Soup, and it was so insanely good that we were sure she would have her baby immediately, from the sheer deliciousness of it, even though we had planned to go to Joe's Pizza, where the eggplant parmesan has legendary water-breaking properties.
I served the soup with these biscuits, and we were so perfectly satisfied that we sat at the table reminiscing about dinner even before the plates were cleared. "Wasn't that so good?" "Oh my God, I know. That was so good."
Did you want to hear more about the soup? No? You wanted to hear about the baby? Oh! The baby. Frankie. He is--no offense to you or me with our own supremely beautiful babies--the most beautiful baby who ever lived, and his birth was what you might call, if you weren't raised in New York City by atheists, a blessed event. Anni was like the love child of Botticelli's Madonna and the Dalai Lama, assuming their love child turned out to be Rocky Balboa. She was all peace and grace and focus and monstrous strength, and I was filled with awe. Also, at different moments, I was filled with an embarrassing urge to faint. I did not faint, but I did once have to pass along the leg I was holding so that I could sit down for 35 seconds. 35 seconds, I swear, even though the tough-guy nurse (the same one who later called minute-old Frankie "pal" when she was diapering him) would not let me forget it. "I don't want to have to do paperwork on you," she scolded, even as the baby was crowning, and I laughed. (After I told her this story later, along with various details about the barfing, our friend Liz said, "I'm really hearing how heroic you were, Catherine!" which also made me laugh.)
And now we've got this Frankie of the small nose and baby-dinosaur grunting, of the scritchy-scratchy fingernails and the fierce-but-comically-quiet indignant crying, of the knit cap and the bellybutton stump and the blue eyes that look and scan and roll around like a wild horse's until they find the face of his beautiful mama, where they can rest.
Potato Leek Soup
Serves 4
Active time: 20 minutes; total time: 50 minutes
This soup is so simple and so good, there's not even that much to add here in the introductory note, though I will mention that I usually use boxed chicken broth but instead made it this time with vegetarian bouillon (I had to type that, like, 5 times to get the spelling right) on account of Anni being a vegetarian. I love, love, love this particular type of this brand--more than any of the boxed broth you can buy. You could, though, use plain water and up the salt a bit to compensate.
3 tablespoons butter
3 leeks, white and light-to-medium green parts, halved lengthwise, sliced into thin half moons, and washed well in a colander
1 1/2 pounds potatoes (ideally Yukon golds), peeled and diced into 1/2-inch cubes
Kosher salt
4 cups broth, water, or a mix of broth and water
1/2 cup milk
Chives for garnish (optional, of course)
Melt the butter in a soup pot over medium-low heat, add the leeks, and stir them as they begin to cook. Ideally they'll have some water still clinging to them: they'll kind of steam and sauté simultaneously, and you can cover the pot to let them get tender (around 10 minutes), stirring occasionally while you prep the potatoes. Now add the potatoes, the broth or water, and some amount of salt (depending on how salty the broth is). Bring the coup to a boil, then reduce the heat and simmer, covered, for half an hour until the potatoes are very tender.
Puree some or all of the soup, using an immersion blender or a regular blender (I use an immersion blender and puree about half of it, since I like to leave some chunks of potato). Stir in the milk and taste the soup for salt: given its great simplicity, it is really important that this soup has enough salt; if it tastes like it's missing something, it is, and what it's missing is more salt. Garnish with chives (if you like) and serve.
Member Comments On...
Potato Leek Soup
About Catherine Newman
Catherine Newman is the author of the
memoir, Waiting for Birdy: A Year of Frantic Tedium,
Neurotic Angst, and the Wild Magic of Growing a Family, available
online and in bookstores nationwide.
- March 2011
-
- March 21, 2011
Gratitude - March 14, 2011
Mexican Rice - March 7, 2011
Brown-butter Whole-wheat Shortbread
- March 21, 2011
- February 2011
-
- February 28, 2011
Smoky Saucy Chickpeas with Spinach - February 20, 2011
Roast Chicken with Ginger Vinaigrette - February 14, 2011
Butternut Galette - February 7, 2011
Beets
- February 28, 2011
- January 2011
-
- January 31, 2011
Brownies - January 24, 2011
The World's Best Salad (and how to teach your kid to make it) - January 18, 2011
Rosemary-Parmesan Butternut Gratin - January 10, 2011
Friendly Fondue - January 3, 2011
Yeasted Waffles
- January 31, 2011
- December 2010
-
- December 27, 2010
Ham and Cheese Muffins - December 19, 2010
Chile Tortilla Eggbake - December 13, 2010
Peppermint Patties - December 6, 2010
Maple Rosemary Popcorn
- December 27, 2010
- November 2010
-
- November 29, 2010
Jalapeno-Cheddar Potato Fritters - November 22, 2010
Caramelized Brussels Sprouts - November 15, 2010
Sparkling Cranberry Centerpiece - November 8, 2010
Whole-wheat Pasta with Broccoli Pesto and Garlicky Breadcrumbs - November 1, 2010
Fancy Pastries
- November 29, 2010
- October 2010
-
- October 25, 2010
Apple Pie Tutorial - October 18, 2010
Lentil Soup - October 9, 2010
Pork Roast with Cider-Cream Gravy - October 4, 2010
Kale Chips
- October 25, 2010
- September 2010
-
- September 27, 2010
Potato Leek Soup - September 20, 2010
Panzanella - September 13, 2010
Iced Oatmeal Cookies - September 6, 2010
Pizza
- September 27, 2010
- August 2010
-
- August 30, 2010
One-Bean Salad - August 23, 2010
Tomatoes, Basil, and Mozzarella - August 16, 2010
Mexican Chicken Salad - August 9, 2010
Pesto
- August 30, 2010
- July 2010
-
- July 31, 2010
Cherry-Apricot Crumble - July 26, 2010
Summer Pasta with Corn, Lime, and Cream - July 19, 2010
The World's Best (and Easiest) Dill Pickles - July 9, 2010
Panna Cotta - July 5, 2010
Gingery Napa Slaw
- July 31, 2010
- June 2010
-
- June 27, 2010
Cold Noodle Bowl - June 21, 2010
Chimichurri - June 14, 2010
Burger Buns - June 7, 2010
Satiny Chocolate Sauce
- June 27, 2010
- May 2010
-
- May 31, 2010
Green Goddess Potato Salad - May 24, 2010
Polenta with Butter-Braised Asparagus - May 17, 2010
Tortillas from Scratch - May 10, 2010
Beef Satay with Peanut Sauce - May 3, 2010
Smoky Shrimp with Garlic and Olive Oil
- May 31, 2010
- April 2010
-
- April 26, 2010
Raw Energy Bars - April 19, 2010
Saturated Pork Chops - April 12, 2010
Chocolate Chip Cookies - April 5, 2010
Devilish Eggs
- April 26, 2010
- March 2010
-
- March 29, 2010
Toffee Buttercrunch Matzoh - March 21, 2010
*Fish* with Brown Butter Sauce - March 15, 2010
Thai Coconut Chicken Soup - March 8, 2010
Headlong into Spring (i.e. Asparagus with Brown Butter Sauce) - March 1, 2010
Corn, Bean, and Barley Soup
- March 29, 2010
- February 2010
-
- February 21, 2010
Soft Pretzels - February 15, 2010
Winter Blues - February 8, 2010
Empanadas - February 1, 2010
Walnut-Orange Cake
- February 21, 2010
- January 2010
-
- January 25, 2010
Lemon-Herb Roast Chicken - January 18, 2010
Amazing From-Scratch Hot Chocolate - January 11, 2010
Pork So Good It Could Make You Cry - January 4, 2010
Winter Sunshine Bars
- January 25, 2010
- December 2009
-
- December 28, 2009
Fantastic Fearless Five-Minute Bread - December 21, 2009
Brown Beef Stew - December 14, 2009
Never Enough Latkes - December 7, 2009
Eggnog Cheesecake Squares
- December 28, 2009
- November 2009
-
- November 30, 2009
Kale Slaw - November 23, 2009
Cranberry Sauce - November 16, 2009
Birthday Cake - November 12, 2009
Instant Oatmeal - November 2, 2009
Roasted Cauliflower Salad
- November 30, 2009
- October 2009
-
- October 26, 2009
Crunchy Oven Fries - October 19, 2009
Homemade Fancy Crackers - October 5, 2009
The Soup of 1000 Vegetables
- October 26, 2009
- September 2009
-
- September 28, 2009
Granola Bars - September 21, 2009
Dad's Spaghetti Sauce - September 14, 2009
Peachy Peach Jam - September 8, 2009
Two Late Summer Dips
- September 28, 2009
- August 2009
-
- August 31, 2009
Chocolate Zucchini Cupcakes - August 22, 2009
Minted Cherry Tabouli - August 17, 2009
Easy Roasted Tomato Sauce - August 10, 2009
Double-Delicious Grilled Chicken - August 3, 2009
Camping and Eating
- August 31, 2009
- July 2009
-
- July 25, 2009
Warm and Smoky Potato Salad - July 16, 2009
Make Your Own (Quinoa!) Sundaes - July 7, 2009
Mango Fro-yo Pops
- July 25, 2009
- June 2009
-
- June 29, 2009
Asian-style Chicken Salad - June 22, 2009
Best Buttermilk Dressing - June 15, 2009
Donut Cake - June 8, 2009
Finger-licking Ribs - June 1, 2009
Hummus Among Us
- June 29, 2009
- May 2009
-
- May 26, 2009
Banana Muffins - May 18, 2009
Rhubarb Crumb Bars - May 11, 2009
Hakuna Frittata - May 4, 2009
Asparagus with Delicious Dip
- May 26, 2009
- April 2009
-
- April 27, 2009
Roasted Salmon with Ginger-Cilantro Vinaigrette - April 20, 2009
Chocolate Pudding - April 13, 2009
Whole-wheat Pasta with Chickpeas and Lemon - April 8, 2009
Matzo Brei - April 6, 2009
Migas
- April 27, 2009
- March 2009
-
- March 30, 2009
Macaroni and Cheese - March 23, 2009
Yummy Buttermilk Biscuits - March 16, 2009
Perfect Oatmeal Cookies - March 9, 2009
Soy-Braised Chicken - March 2, 2009
Roasted Chickpea Snacks
- March 30, 2009
- February 2009
-
- February 23, 2009
Buttermilk Pancakes - February 15, 2009
Basic Sautéed Chicken - February 9, 2009
Chocolate Cake - February 2, 2009
Black Bean Dip - February 1, 2009
Football Gameday Snacking
- February 23, 2009
- January 2009
-
- January 26, 2009
Tamale Pie - January 20, 2009
Borscht - January 12, 2009
Baked Pancake - January 5, 2009
Corn Chowder
- January 26, 2009
- December 2008
-
- December 29, 2008
Egg Noodles with Ham and Peas - December 20, 2008
Maple Snow Taffy - December 15, 2008
Dinner Beans - December 8, 2008
Vanilla Extract - December 1, 2008
Carrot Salad
- December 29, 2008
- November 2008
-
- November 24, 2008
Cranberry Upside-Down Cake - November 17, 2008
Crudités - November 10, 2008
Gingerbread - November 3, 2008
Tofu P.S. - November 3, 2008
Soy-Glazed Tofu
- November 24, 2008
- October 2008
-
- October 27, 2008
Granola - October 20, 2008
Pot Roast - October 13, 2008
Plum Cake - October 13, 2008
It's Not Good-bye It's Bon Appetit! - October 6, 2008
Forty - October 2, 2008
Pants and Undies that Fall Down Every Five Minutes, Part II
- October 27, 2008
- September 2008
-
- September 22, 2008
Pants and Undies that Fall Down Every Five Minutes - September 16, 2008
Growing Up - September 9, 2008
Great Things - September 5, 2008
Thunderstorms
- September 22, 2008
- August 2008
-
- August 26, 2008
Babies - August 19, 2008
The Road at Nickerson Campground - August 19, 2008
Summer Fever - August 6, 2008
Aswim
- August 26, 2008
- July 2008
-
- July 29, 2008
Honestly - July 15, 2008
Chilling Out - July 8, 2008
Buckets of Rain
- July 29, 2008
- June 2008
-
- June 30, 2008
The Life - June 24, 2008
Heat Wave - June 16, 2008
Lady Liberty - June 9, 2008
Bleeding Heart - June 4, 2008
The Mostly Giving Tree
- June 30, 2008
- May 2008
-
- May 27, 2008
Taboo - May 19, 2008
Tooth, Wisdom - May 13, 2008
Bedfellows - May 6, 2008
Natural Talent
- May 27, 2008
- April 2008
-
- April 29, 2008
Adjustable Rate Mothering - April 22, 2008
Marathon - April 14, 2008
Birdy Longstocking - April 7, 2008
Spring Fever
- April 29, 2008
- March 2008
-
- March 31, 2008
Poor Comprehension - March 25, 2008
This Many Fingers - March 17, 2008
The Moment Between Past and Future - March 10, 2008
It's a Brand New Day - March 3, 2008
Fury
- March 31, 2008
- February 2008
-
- February 26, 2008
The Heart Is a Lonely Hunter - February 19, 2008
Famnig Hjärta - February 11, 2008
Absurdistan May Be Just a Novel to You, But It's Where I Actually Live - February 4, 2008
Sick Day, Episode Infinity Plus One
- February 26, 2008
- January 2008
-
- January 29, 2008
The Stories - January 22, 2008
Why I Need to Slow Down - January 14, 2008
Wonder Time - January 10, 2008
The Baby - January 2, 2008
Movement
- January 29, 2008
- December 2007
-
- December 25, 2007
Sorry - December 17, 2007
Girl Cub - December 10, 2007
Lucky Me - December 4, 2007
Still Waiting for the Feature Film
- December 25, 2007
- November 2007
-
- November 26, 2007
The Milestones You Never Read About - November 19, 2007
One Afternoon - November 12, 2007
I One the Sandbox Eight - November 5, 2007
More from the Chronicles of Melancholy
- November 26, 2007
- October 2007
-
- October 29, 2007
Bossy McBossypants - October 23, 2007
Ask Me Anything - October 16, 2007
The Only Girl Not in a Leotard - October 9, 2007
Off the Charts - October 2, 2007
Unconditional
- October 29, 2007
- September 2007
-
- September 24, 2007
What Gets Outgrown - September 24, 2007
All I Want for Christmas... - September 7, 2007
The Annual Camping Episode - September 7, 2007
It's All Fun and Games Here in the Police State - September 7, 2007
The Poop Whisperer - September 7, 2007
Something Fishy - September 7, 2007
Cornier Than You Might Expect - September 7, 2007
Thanksgiving, Part 2 - September 7, 2007
Thanksgiving - September 7, 2007
The Bickersons Play Cariboo - September 7, 2007
Swimming Hole - September 7, 2007
The Stranger Things That Have Happened - September 7, 2007
Bedhead - September 7, 2007
Listen Up - September 7, 2007
Guesswork - September 7, 2007
Daring - September 7, 2007
Pasta and Fear - September 7, 2007
On the Fairness of Brothers, Bugs, and Balloons - September 7, 2007
Tea Party on Acid - September 7, 2007
To Birdy at the Goose Pond - September 7, 2007
Lisin To The wind Bloe - September 7, 2007
Tears of Something - September 7, 2007
Breathless - September 7, 2007
Spring Back - September 7, 2007
On Yiddish and Other Ancient Forms of Communication - September 7, 2007
For the Love of Four - September 7, 2007
Good for Nothing - September 7, 2007
It's Better to Have Loved and Barfed... - September 7, 2007
'Complete Idiot's Guide to Enhancing Self Esteem' is the Actual Title of a Book! - September 7, 2007
A Juggling Act - September 7, 2007
Maybe for Halloween She Could Be a Toddler - September 7, 2007
On Violence - September 7, 2007
Winter Wonderland's Crotchety Neighbor - September 7, 2007
There's a Reason Why We Can't Predict the Future - September 7, 2007
Resolute - September 7, 2007
Walking a Mile in Their Shoes - September 7, 2007
Worrywart - September 7, 2007
Everything Is Sacred - September 7, 2007
Gag Me with a Doorknob - September 7, 2007
Three-Ring Circus - September 7, 2007
Little Parasites - September 7, 2007
Rhetorical Questions Like Melted Cheese Oozing into Your Head - September 7, 2007
By the Seat of Our Pants - September 7, 2007
A Little Understanding - September 7, 2007
My Lucky Number - September 7, 2007
The Invisible Woman - September 7, 2007
Morning Has Broken - September 7, 2007
Emotional Disclosure - September 7, 2007
Disaster Is a State of Mind - September 7, 2007
The 7 Habits of Highly, Um, Successful Children - September 7, 2007
The Witching Week - September 7, 2007
Learning to Worry Less - September 7, 2007
Wrestling with Restlessness - September 7, 2007
Start of the Happy-Sad Season - September 7, 2007
Goes Around and Comes Around - September 7, 2007
Why Ask Why? - September 7, 2007
Lather. Rinse. Repeat.
- September 24, 2007
- August 2007
-
- August 28, 2007
No Rest in the Restroom
- August 28, 2007
- August 2006
-
- August 27, 2006
What Naked Crabs Can Teach Us
- August 27, 2006




